Mastering the Art of Making a Strong First Impression
- Tom Goedhart
- Oct 15, 2021
- 3 min read
In the blink of an eye, people have already formed their thoughts and opinions about you - especially when you’re right in front of them. The old adage “Don’t judge a book by its cover” might have been true once, but in today’s world, it’s almost a myth. Let’s face it: we all judge others based on their looks - face, hair, clothes - and we don’t even realize it. Be honest, you’ve done it too 😏.
In a post-pandemic world, first impressions are more important than ever. That initial interaction could be the difference between opening doors or slamming them shut. While we can't control what others think at first glance, we can certainly control how we present ourselves in those crucial moments.
The Power of a Smile
A smile is one of the easiest and most effective ways to connect with others. It radiates warmth, kindness, and openness, whether you're in a job interview or on a date.
But don’t just focus on your mouth - your eyes need to be part of the conversation. A smile that reaches your eyes, paired with eye contact, signals confidence and approachability. It’s a simple but powerful way to leave a positive impression.
The Perfect Handshake
Let’s be real, handshakes have been a little awkward post-pandemic. However, as the world returns to a more normal rhythm, the handshake may be back in play.
It’s simple, yet subtle: extend your hand, but don’t let it happen in silence. The one of higher status or older person usually leads, but don’t wait for them to initiate. Your handshake should be firm (but not bone-crushing), with just the right amount of shake - no jerky motions or turning the palm up! And remember - clean hands are a must!
What Your Attire Says About You
Your clothes speak volumes before you even say a word. What you wear tells others who you are, so choose wisely. You don’t need to go overboard with flashy attire, but make sure you’re presenting an image that reflects your true self. Don’t try to be someone you’re not.
Pick colors and styles that flatter your body type and complexion. And don’t always default to a suit - sometimes it’s not the right choice. With more people adapting to comfortable home wear post-pandemic, a suit might not always hit the mark. Know when it’s time to opt for something more laid-back but still sharp.
Attitude & Behavior Matter
Whether you’re having lunch with a superior, taking a date out, or meeting a business partner, your attitude and behavior can make or break the situation.
We’re talking about good manners: say “thank you,” apologize or ask for permission when appropriate, don’t interrupt, respect others’ opinions, cover your mouth when you sneeze or cough - the basics matter. These small gestures reflect respect and can shape how others perceive you.
Grooming & Hygiene - The Finishing Touch
Your appearance isn't just about clothes - it’s about the small details, like hair and grooming. A sharp outfit can’t save you if your hair looks like you’ve just rolled out of bed or your nails need a trim.
Make sure your hair is neat, your face is fresh, and a spritz of elegant cologne ties it all together. These little things make all the difference when leaving a lasting impression.
Your first impression has the potential to open doors - make sure it’s one that sticks. Whether you’re meeting someone for business, pleasure, or anything in between, these tips will help you make a lasting impact.
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